Their second child, John Wilhelm, was born in the summer of 1886. He
was weak and lived only five days. Their third son, Carl Emil, was born the
following summer and another son in Dec of 1889; both were healthy and strong. John
and Ida were active in the community and were members of the Swedish New
Gottland Lutheran Church.
Sometimes hard times can mold and define a family. For John and
Ida, the date was May 14, 1889. You can't always tell what will happen on any
given day but looking into their abandoned home, I can imagine how the day
might have started.
"Will you stay at home today or go with
Arthur and I to take the wheat into town?" John asked Ida as he opened the
back door of their wood-frame house, 5 year-old Arthur squeezed between him and
the door to enter the kitchen at a run. He slowed down as he caught a brief
look from his mother and a quiet "Artur..." from his father.
Then Ida smiled at him as she finished wiping
left-over breakfast from Carl Emil's face. She glanced at the list of needed
supplies on the kitchen table. With harvest in full swing, they had all been
busy and that list was growing.
It was a nice day for a trip into town.
"I'll get the baby ready and we'll all go! It would be a good time to get
some supplies."
Soon John and Ida were on their way to
McPherson with their young family. My
grandpa, just half a year old, sitting in his mother's lap and Carl Emil
sandwiched safely between his parents on the wagon bench. Arthur, sat just
behind the bench in the soft wheat. His parents’ instructions still hung in the
air. "Stay in the front of the wagon where we can see you. Hold on to the
bench so you won't fall." What a fun place to ride! Sitting on the hill of
shifting, shiny wheat kernels that filled the wagon bed was going to be fun and
he was excited!
It was about an hour from the farm to
McPherson by wagon. John and Ida passed the time discussing their neighbors'
fields, as all farmers do, and keeping wiggly Emil safely on the seat. Ida
bounced the baby on her lap, and glanced back at Arthur to make sure he was
obeying, as they made their way down the bumpy roads.
Five year-old boys are curious and can get in
trouble when they find themselves with a few minutes of time behind their
parents' backs. Arthur was no different. He let go of the seat with one hand
and dug it down into the warm, slippery wheat. Before long he was busy letting
wheat sift through his fingers to land at his sides.
There was the rhythmic clop of the horses’ hooves
as they pulled the wheat laden lumber wagon; the wheels jarringly finding the
deepest ruts in the old Kansas road south of their farm.
There is no way of knowing what alerted the
parents that something was wrong. Maybe it was a noise or the lack of noise
behind her that made Ida glance back again. The wheat still filled the bed of
the wagon but the empty space behind the seat dropped her into a heart stopping
panic that all mothers recognize. Arthur was gone! Where was he?
"Arthur!! Stop the wagon, John! Arthur
is gone!" His wife's panicked cries had John yanking on the reigns to stop
the horses and pulling on the brake.
The space around the wagon that had been so
full of noise a second before turned sickeningly quiet. John jumped down,
staring at the empty space. Then, he leaped into the back of the wagon, digging
his hands into the golden grains, searching for his son. Nothing. Now his
fear-blinded eyes searched the area as he and Ida yelled Arthur's name. Then,
John's eyes fell on something lying in the road in the distance. He knew
immediately that it was their precious, firstborn son. Arthur's young life was
gone before John could reach him. The fall from the wagon had broken his neck.
McPherson Daily Republican, May 15, 1890 |
The scene is unimaginable and yet, in the next few minutes, it
would get worse. The child lay, now wrapped in his parents' arms, in front of a
neighbor's farm at their driveway. Soon that family entered the scene, alerted
by the cries.
The farmer, a long-time friend, ran to help. When he heard the story, he proceeded to berate the heartbroken father for being so careless with his boy. How could he put his small son in such a dangerous place? He should have known this could happen! Hurtful words saturated the heavy air and did nothing to comfort the couple.
The little boy was carried to the neighbor's
barn, cleaned up by the farmer's wife and placed in a safe place until
arrangements could be made with the town mortuary.
I've been told by John's grandsons that he
never fully recovered from the words of his neighbor. They are quietly
repeated, three generations later, as part of the sad story. The pain of those
words ruined a friendship and contributory to John and Ida leaving the
fellowship of the Swedish Lutheran Church that they had been a part of for many
years.
Their first born son, Arthur, was buried in the cemetery behind the Swedish Lutheran Church outside of McPherson, Kansas. No one knows exactly where as there is no longer a stone to mark it.
Their first born son, Arthur, was buried in the cemetery behind the Swedish Lutheran Church outside of McPherson, Kansas. No one knows exactly where as there is no longer a stone to mark it.
A simple trip to town had turned a family's
life on its head. It threw Carl Emil into his brother's place as "the eldest
child"; cementing the scene in his mind and leaving an invisible scar that
would stay with him for 70 years.
My grandfather, the baby brother, received a
new name. No one knows what he was called before that day, but he became Arthur
Theodore in honor of his brother.
Somehow, the family survived. During the next
twelve years, their household grew from four to nine. Albin, Martin, Edith,
Mabel and Reuben graced the family between 1892 and 1903.
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